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I didn’t learn skincare in a lab: Kalpana Semple turns kitchen rituals into a company



Kalpana Semple’s grandmother’s advice that care is a ceremony, not a task, became one of the foundations of Kaia Skin, a nervous system skincare brand rooted in calm and balance.

For entrepreneur Kalpana Semple, the woman behind Kaia Skin, the kitchen has always been a generous place where beauty was never separated from everyday rhythm. Her approach to skincare traces back to the unhurried ceremonial rituals of her grandmother and mother, who turned simple kitchen ingredients such as turmeric, chickpea flour, honey, and saffron into a routine skincare regimen. 

“I didn’t learn skincare from a lab. I learned it from the women who raised me,” says Kalpana, a certified Reiki master, Ayurvedic practitioner, and formulator.

“My mother made fresh ubatans by hand, those soft Ayurvedic pastes of chickpea flour, turmeric, and herbs, and that is the direct ancestor of my Saundarya powder mask,” she says.

Another woman who inspired her was her grandmother.

“My grandmother’s evening ritual shaped everything: her metal vanity box, her surmadani, the little silver pot of kohl she lined her eyes with, and the unhurried way she tended to herself at the end of a day. She taught me that care is a ceremony, not a task,” she told A Lotus In The Mud.

Those early lessons from the kitchens have travelled with her and transformed into her entrepreneurial journey. 

“The turmeric, the saffron, and the raw honey I reach for now all come from those two kitchens,” she says. 

Kaia Skin combines Ayurvedic botanicals with Reiki 

Born in India and raised in Kuwait, Kalpana left India in 1996. However, the rituals she grew up watching and the life her family built in Kuwait gave her an early appreciation of lineage and traditions, including Ayurveda. 

She says Ayurveda was not something she discovered as a wellness trend. 

“My first teachers were my grandmother and my mother,” she says. “Ayurveda was simply how we lived, ate, and cared for ourselves, long before I ever formalized it.”

“So the knowledge came to me twice: first as lineage, then as discipline,” she says.

She strengthened that foundation through formal study, including courses in Ayurveda and Ayurvedic skincare with Manisha Kshirsagar. 

“Reiki came to me as a practice, and eventually I trained as a master. It gave a name to something my family had always done, bringing intention to the act of care.”

Talking about combining the two, she says, “When I formulate, I’m not only choosing oils. I’m choosing the state I’m in while I make them. Ayurveda gives the body what it needs. Reiki gives it the intention to receive it.” 

“My confidence came from not having to invent anything. I only had to tell the truth about what skin actually is: the outermost layer of the nervous system. When something is true, you don’t need to dress it up.”

~ Kalpana Semple

Marriage between Ayurveda and Reiki

The relationship between Ayurveda and Reiki is equally important to Kalpana, but she does not see them as competing systems.

“To me, they were never separate,” she says. “Ayurveda is what: the botanicals, the doshas, and the wisdom of matching a plant to a person. Reiki is the how: the intention and energy you bring to the making.”

The idea of intention as an ingredient goes back to her childhood.

“I learned very young, watching my mother mix fresh ubatans by hand in her kitchen, that intention is an ingredient. I was seven when I understood that.”

That philosophy also explains why her products are designed to be used slowly. The ritual is not an accessory to the formulation; it is part of the experience.

Kalpana Semple’s approach to skincare traces back to unhurried ceremonial rituals of her grandmother and mother, who would use ubatan – a paste of kitchen ingredients such as turmeric, chickpea flour, honey, and saffron.

From IT to entrepreneurship

Her professional journey took her to an entirely different world. Before becoming an entrepreneur, Kalpana worked in IT, a world she describes as “precise” and “logical,” which taught her discipline and how to build something properly, even if it was not where her heart ultimately lay.

Over time, another calling became difficult to ignore.

“I pursued my yoga teacher training and became certified in Reiki, and all the while I was quietly formulating for myself and my family the way the women before me always had,” she says.

“What I always wanted, long before I had a brand, was to talk about health and wellness as a whole, the body, the mind, the nervous system, and the spirit, all in one conversation.”

Kaia Skin, a nervous system skincare brand, became the place where those threads were finally woven together. Launched in 2021, the brand did not arrive with a completely formed identity. 

“It revealed itself over the first few years,” she says. 

What emerged was a philosophy she calls Nervous System Aesthetics, eventually shaped into the Kaia Method.

The idea came from her own experience.

“It never felt like a marketing decision. I wasn’t looking for a phrase that would sell. I was trying to describe something I had lived,” she says.

Her own skin, she explains, is “Pitta-Vata, reactive and quick to flush.”

She noticed that stress affected her skin long before a product did. “When I was calm, my skin was calm. That isn’t a tagline; that’s physiology.”

For her, this connection between emotional state and skin is also where traditional wisdom and contemporary science meet. 

“Ayurveda understood this thousands of years ago, and modern science is only now naming the pathways,” she says.

“My confidence came from not having to invent anything. I only had to tell the truth about what skin actually is: the outermost layer of the nervous system. When something is true, you don’t need to dress it up.”

When skincare became a nervous-system practice

Explaining “nervous system skincare” to customers, however, was not always easy. 

The phrase was unfamiliar, and Kalpana felt that leading with science could sometimes create more distance than understanding.

“In the beginning, there was a lot of translation,” she says. “‘Nervous system skincare’ wasn’t a language people had heard, so if I led with the science, I’d lose them.”

“I started letting them feel it. When someone slows down, breathes, and presses oil into their face with intention, their shoulders drop. They feel it before they understand it.”

It worked. 

“Trust,” she says, “was not built through a lecture. Trust came from that felt experience.”

Her approach has been appreciated with recognition and awards. Among them, what mattered most to Kalpana was the Beauty Shortlist honoring her Calming Blue Face Oil three times, her Saffron Oil being named Best Ayurvedic Face Oil, and Vogue Arabia’s feature on neurocosmetics.

“Each of those told me the same thing: people were ready to hear that skin and the nervous system are one conversation.”

Kalpana developed Calming Blue Face Oil, her first and best-selling product, for her own reactive and easily flushed skin.
Kalpana Semple developed Calming Blue Face Oil, her first and best-selling product, for her own reactive and easily flushed skin.

The product part of the ritual

At Kaia Skin, Kalpana says, every product works on two levels.

“The formula does one job: Blue Tansy and its azulene to calm visible redness, nourishing oils to rebuild the barrier. The ritual does the other,” she says.

That ritual can involve slow application, breath and touch, facial massage with a Kansa wand, conscious breathing, and the warmth of one’s own hands on the face.

“Calm skin and a calm system aren’t two goals,” she says. “They’re the same goal, approached from the outside and the inside at the same time.”

Calming Blue Face Oil, her first product, remains the brand’s bestseller. She originally formulated it for her own reactive, easily flushed skin. 

“People reach for it because it does something they can both see and feel quickly: the Blue Tansy calms redness, and the ritual of pressing it in calms the person,” says Kalpana.

“It meets skin that feels overwhelmed and tells it that it’s safe.”

A family enterprise

Although Kaia Skin carries Kalpana’s name and lineage, she is quick to acknowledge that the journey has never been hers alone.

“My husband and my boys are my steady ground. They have supported the business in the quiet, daily way that matters most,” she says.

Her husband, in particular, is closely involved in the business. “He’s a huge part of how Kaia runs day to day, and having him beside me means I never carry it alone.”

“This has always been a family endeavor at heart,” she says.

Family support has become especially important as the brand has grown. 

She has deliberately built Kaia through trust rather than noise. 

“It has grown steadily since, almost entirely on the strength of the idea and the people who feel it working,” says Kalpana, whose products are currently available in the US only.

Keeping the ritual alive

Kalpana believes in leading by example, by living the philosophy herself.

“My mornings are quiet before they’re anything else,” she says. Breathwork before reaching for her phone, stillness, a slow skincare ritual, sound healing, and Kansa massage help her return to herself when the work becomes loud.

“The non-negotiable is simple: I don’t sell a practice I haven’t lived. If I’m asking my customers to slow down and breathe, I have to be doing it too.”

If her grandmother and mother could see Kaia Skin today, she feels they would be “quietly proud”. 

And perhaps that is the most enduring idea behind Kaia Skin: that the rituals now being rediscovered and repackaged as wellness were once simply part of everyday life.

“If they saw that their unhurried, intentional way of caring for skin is now something I teach and share with the world, I think they’d smile and say, ‘Of course, we always knew this mattered.’”

The lesson she carries from them remains at the heart of everything she makes: “The lesson I carry from them is the one I built the whole brand on: intention is an ingredient. How you do a thing is part of what the thing becomes.”

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  • Arpana

    Arpana is a senior journalist who has worked across leading Indian news organizations, including Hindustan Times, Indo-Asian News Service, The Statesman, as well as the Ministry of Agriculture. She also has five years of experience creating audience-focused, multi-platform online content, blending newsroom storytelling with digital content and leadership skills.

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